Men might not typically be the more expressive of the two genders, but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be paying attention to the things that he’s telling you. You always have to be valuing the way that your man speaks to you. He might not be the best with words but the way he communicates with you can say a lot about the kind of person that he is. So, make sure that you ALWAYS stay on top of the things that he blurts out of his mouth. You might pick up a few clues about whether he really is a keeper or not.
You are dating a guy and you’ve been together for a few months now. You feel like he is somehow the right guy for you. You are excited about what this means for you and your relationship but you don’t want to get your hopes up just yet. You don’t want to be counting your chicks before they hatch.
How do you know for sure that he’s a guy you can really sink your teeth into? How do you know if he’s genuinely serious about you and that you can trust him to not break your heart? You want to let yourself fall deeply in love with him. However, you’re scared. You don’t know if he’s going to be worth it. You don’t know if he’s the real deal. And you don’t want to be wasting your time or breath on a guy who is only going to end up breaking your heart.
That is why you need to be paying attention to the way he talks to you. If he says a lot of the 12 things that are listed here, then he is probably the real deal. And when that’s the case, you should try your best to not let him go.
1. “You are the most beautiful person I have ever met – both inside and out.”
He acknowledges your beauty – both inside and out. You can tell that he doesn’t just like you because you’re pretty. He’s really int his relationship with you because of the total package. He’s in love with you as a person.
2. “I just love the way you smile.”
He still gets giddy every time you smile at him. And the reason for that is not just because it’s nice to look at. He loves seeing you smile when you’re together because he likes being able to make you feel happy and elated.
3. “This is what I think…”
He isn’t afraid to give you his opinion. He knows that he owes it to you to always keep things real with you. He is never afraid of letting you know what he thinks.
4. “What do you think?”
He isn’t afraid of asking you about what you think either. He really does value your thoughts and opinions. He doesn’t want to make you feel like you are merely a spectator in his life. He wants to always make you feel included and appreciated.
5. “I will support you with whatever choice you make.”
He is always going to be your biggest cheerleader. He makes you feel safe about taking risks. He makes you feel safe about going after what you want because he has your back.
6. “I’m very sorry.”
He is humble enough to acknowledge his mistakes and let you know that he’s sorry. He knows that there is always room for improvement and that he shouldn’t let his pride get in the way of the relationship.
7. “I believe in you always!”
He believes in you. He knows that you are a strong and independent woman and that you are capable of getting things done on your own. He genuinely believes that you can do anything you set your mind to.
8. “I can take care of it.”
But even if he believes that you can take care of yourself, he still wants to be able to be there for you. He still tries to make sure to take as much off your plate as he can because he wants to make your life easier.
9. “You’re so funny.”
He shares the same kind of sense of humour with you. He knows that you are someone he can always share a laugh with. He knows that he can always have a good time with you.
10. “I trust you.”
You always want to be with a man who lets you know that he trusts you. He always feels comfortable with you. He knows that you are someone who is serious about him and he doesn’t take that for granted. He wants you to know that he really values your presence in his life.
11. “I love you.”
Lastly, of course, you will want a man who tells you that he loves you. He should never be shy about saying it to you. He should never be withholding of his love and affection for you in your relationship.